Yesterday was an exciting, amazing day, one that I’ll always remember. It’s a little disappointing to come back to real life today, but at least I’ll have the memory of yesterday 🙂
I was feeling really disappointed the week before, because I had signed up for two group bike rides that are taking place next weekend, and then I found out that my husband is going to take me on a surprise trip then. I’m excited for the mystery trip… but I was really looking forward to those two bike rides and had been talking about them constantly.
Both of the rides only take place once a year, and a lot of people in the winter biking competition that I’ve been participating in are doing them, so I’m sad to miss out. I wish my husband would have asked me to keep that weekend free first, so I wouldn’t have gotten so excited about the bike rides. Oh well.
On Saturday night, I happened to come across a post about an International Women’s Day biking scavenger hunt that was taking place the next day. It sounded pretty casual, and people could just show up and form teams on the day of the ride. I wavered all night and the next morning about participating, because the event was taking place on city streets, which I have no experience on, I’ve only ridden on trails and residential streets.
I ended up deciding to go, because it was a beautiful day and I knew I would regret it if I didn’t give it a shot, especially since I wouldn’t be able to do the group rides next weekend anymore. I figured if the city streets were too overwhelming for me on a bike, I could just bail on the scavenger hunt and head home.
I showed up and registered at the starting point, where they pointed me to an area where I could find a team. I approached a girl who was standing there by herself and asked her about teaming up, and I was sooo lucky to find her! She knew the city really well and had great advice for biking on the city streets. A couple more women were added to our team as well, and they were both so helpful too!
Once we figured out our route and selected which checkpoints we would try to get to for the scavenger hunt, we hopped on our bikes and headed to the first stop. I stayed in the back as we rode and tried to copy what my team members did to learn from them.
At first we were in a bike lane separated from car traffic and that wasn’t bad, but then we got to a scary couple of blocks with no bike lane and lots of cars around. I followed their instructions to get through the traffic, but it was pretty terrifying, especially when a cab started changing lanes and almost hit one of my teammates! We got through it though, and afterward my teammates congratulated me for biking through one of the worst spots in the city, and they assured me that the rest of the ride would be easy compared to that. They were right!
I had a blast as we made our way around the city, taking photos and participating in fun little activities for the scavenger hunt. It ended at a beer garden, where my team and I enjoyed a pitcher of beer while we found out the winners of the scavenger hunt. Sadly, we didn’t win, but it was all for fun 🙂
It was thrilling to bike around the city with inspiring, confident women, and I was happy and exhausted when I returned home last night. However, sadness soon began infiltrating my mood, and I started feeling like I’ve been missing out a lot in life. I wish that I had lived in the city at some point, but I’ve always lived across the river, and for the past couple of years I’ve lived farther out in the suburbs, because that’s where my husband and I work. I also work with almost all men, and they’re older with families and live even farther out in the suburbs.
I’ve wasted so much time in a career I don’t enjoy, at a location far from anything interesting, with people I have nothing in common with. It was so exciting to be surrounded by women for this event and to learn more about the city that I live close to, but now I feel so far away from it already, and I will most likely never see any of the people I met again.
I’m going to keep my eyes peeled for more group rides, especially rides for women, and hopefully they are just as amazing. I’ve been focusing a lot recently on the winter biking competition, and I’m trying to finish strong. There are only 10 more days left, and I’m now in 12th to last place, so I’m moving up! 🙂 My goal is to ride 30 days, 150 miles total, and I’m at 23 days, 87 miles right now. I definitely need to work on getting more miles in, but at least the weather is finally starting to improve. I’m worried my spirits are going to drop significantly again once the competition is over and I no longer have the winter biking goals, but I guess I’ll just have to come up with new goals.